Teenagers and suicide- a growing challenge for our times

Mental health in adolescents with or without special needs is a growing concern and a particular interest of mine.

I found an article on MedPage Today about a survey of teens who had been treated for suicidal thoughts and mental health problems that indicates they are still at risk of attempting suicide. This, to me, says that  just because you have sought help for your young person in this situation, you can never afford to think the problem has gone away.

sad boyParenting teens is, in so many ways, much more difficult than parenting younger children. A balance must be found between watchfulness and intrusion. They naturally do not want to share their inner thoughts with their parents and keep so much more to themselves. They often think that they should be able to sort out emotional problems for themselves, when they are in no position to do so alone. (more…)

Finally: summer, special needs stories and a teenage birthday

Special Needs JungleAh, so school’s out for pretty much everyone from today..just in time for the summer sunshine to finally show itself.  Although my boys are enjoying the end of their second week of alternately slumping in front of screens or eating everything in the house, interspersed with a bit of warhammer painting or deafening me with electric guitar-playing (this is Son1 and he’s very good, thank goodness)

But today is a special day in our house – it’s the long-awaited dawn of Son2’s teenage years. Summer birthdays always seem the longest to come around and last night, having decided to no longer resist being 13, Son2 decided as it was inevitable, he might as well get really excited about it.

He’s now exploring his iPad (see image for his personal engraving on the back) and newly-boosted collection of Orks as he awaits the arrival of a few school pals for a party.. of some type.. to be decided when they get here. I just have to provide pizza, drinks and be scarce, which I  am more than happy to do.

One thing he won’t be doing is perusing my list of must-read stories from the week and this is a shame, because, if he was twenty years older, he’d enjoy them very much, I’m sure. So, happy holidays to you and Happy Birthday to my brand new teenager!